The Seclusion Wedding Venue: A Virginia Mountain Wedding
They said luxury in the mountains couldn’t be done, but for couples getting married at The Seclusion in Lexington, Virginia you can party the night away like you are the only couple on earth. With 360 mountain views your wedding day is a celebration of your love start to finish and far too many venues are ready to get you in and out, so at this black tie event space things are done different. This event space is not for a tighter budget as the amenities of this venue are primed for exclusive wedding days, award winning florals, tear filled champagne toasts, and unforgettable party memories. This high praise does not come unmerited, as a Lexington wedding photographer and videographer I am always visiting and vetting the top Virginia wedding venues that have premiere service for couples like you! This blog breaks down the venue amenities, scenery, preferred vendors, wedding budget, and a real wedding from The Seclusion wedding venue!
All About The Seclusion Wedding Venue
375 Seclusion Lane, Lexington, Virginia 24450
A name of true perfection, The Seclusion is an unforgettable wedding venue located on 72 private acres out in the heart of the Shenandoah Valley. This property was always meant to be a bit of a secret from the outside world. The owners, Trish and Brian Daniel, lived in Houston and wanted a break from the chaos of city life. They had grown in the habit of heading to Lexington whenever they wanted to get away. Eventually, they decided it was time to make this charming town their forever home!
They searched high and low for the right property, dreaming up the name “The Seclusion” before this land was even on their radar. Then, they found it, and in 2015, they started their move. As the land started to transform under their eye, they decided they wanted to share their own slice of heaven with others. The venue opened its doors in 2019 and has been helping people write the next chapter of their love stories ever since!
Details of the Grounds
Every inch of The Seclusion has been curated to create your stunning and elevated wedding day, with designated spots for every portion of your celebration. When you arrive on the morning of your wedding, you will be escorted to The Loft. This is a space at the top of the event hall with an iron balcony that overlooks the room. Outfitted with white shiplap and chandeliers, the bridal suite is a picturesque space where you can prepare for your ceremony! As you get ready in your designated space, your partner will be in The Quarters, a separate barn with wood-wrapped walls and leather furniture. It’s a the perfect vision of a man cave in the mountains without compromising on elegance and necessary ammenties!
Then as your guests arrive, they are rightfully wowed by the stunning drive up to the venue and can begin gathering at The Veranda where they will have an overlook of The Ceremony Lawn. This area is equipped with furniture and decor so your guests can relax with a tasty cocktail until it’s time to be shown to their seats.
Most notable and magazine worthy the Ceremony Lawn is positively stunning, no matter the season. Nestled in the Shenandoah Valley, you are going to have the mountains prominently as your backdrop, but this venue doesn’t leave the mountains to show off alone. Both the aisle and the lookout have been marked with flagstone, and rows of hydrangeas start to show off their colors as the weather gets warmer. I personally love to see how couples add some extra life to the area by bringing in floral arches and line the walk way with their wedding colors! This is going to be the perfect spot to add your unique charm that will look exceptional regardless of style!
Everything After Your Wedding Ceremony At The Seclusion
Once that ring is officially on your finger, your guests can unwind near the fire pits with another tasty beverage and passed appetizers. Maybe spice up the experience with a coffee cart, personalized mini golf, or live string band while you are whisked away for a few formal photos with the family. This is also a fabulous area for lawn games or dessert trucks after your cocktail hour.
Your reception will happen in The Grand Hall, where you will have space for up to 175 guests. This room combines the southern charm of the local area with high-end sophistication. The wooden cathedral ceiling features rafters as well as chandeliers that offer illumination late into the night. The stone fireplace also gives a homey feeling of warmth. You can dress up the area with tons of greenery, floral installations, drapery, and a variety of table layouts! With the venue’s neutral base colors, this is a wonderful spot to bring in your personality and decor!
Stunning Sunset Photography Opportunities
As a photographer, I am always searching far and wide for the venues that showcase a variety of spaces for my main event, showcasing my couple and their memories. Since my first visit to The Seclusion there was no doubt it offers some of the best views around for unforgettable sunset portraits and also providing space like the mirror sitting room for indoor photos that fits the vision of couples looking for a more royal, vogue style gallery.
Most importantly couples portraits have access to the entire 72 acres, so there are countless dreamy spots for these pictures that allow for a unique style for every individual couple. I also love using the balcony for a picture of you sneaking a kiss and showcasing the hard work of your reception space design.
What Makes The Seclusion Stand Out
Throughout your wedding day, The Seclusion will absolutely spoil you! They will give you everything you need to ensure your wedding experience is top level. You will have tables, chairs, outdoor seating, dishes, glassware, and so much more! They will take care of staffing, including concierge services and fire pit staffing. The property includes a catering kitchen that your selected company can use, plus they will have their own bathroom to ensure the staff can stay separated from the venue space.
They also provide a fully equipped bar with a window overlooking the Veranda for a smooth cocktail hour! As for transportation since you are paying for exclusive privacy, the venue offers bus parking, including spots for up to 55 passenger coaches. They also have optional amenities, including a lift for decorating and comprehensive rental packages.
Planning Your Wedding At The Seclusion
Since we have touched on everything the venue provides you for your dream day in terms of space, furniture, and support. It is time to think about what happens next? The venue gives you the freedom to bring in your own food from their trusted list, alcohol, and select your own licensed vendors so you can create your uniquely you wedding day.
It would be a major disservice to you as a wedding photographer from Lexington to not remind you that the stunning venue is just the starting point, the rest of the magic does not happen without a top shelf vendor team. You will need help designing a timeline for the day, delegating who will execute the timeline tasks and where. Then the wedding day dream look does not happen without the help of a talented HMUA, your florist perfectly executing your epic designs and personal color palette, a experienced catering and dj helping controlling the guest experience of the day, and every tiny add on to be discovered.
After 250+ weddings here is a list of people I know will not let you down;
Lexington Virginia Wedding Planners
Lexington Virginia Wedding Florists
- Enchanted Florals
- Florals By Kimberly
- One Last Avocado Floral Design
- The Faded Poppy
- M&M Flower Farm
Lexington Virginia Wedding HMUA
Lexington Virginia Wedding Bakers
Lexington Virginia Wedding Videographers
Lexington Virginia Wedding DJ’s
Lexington Virginia Rentals & Decor
- Aztec Rental
- Adorn Collective
- Paisley & Jade (for specialty lounge & vintage rentals)
General Cost Breakdown for a Wedding At The Seclusion
So now that you know this is the perfect venue for you and you’re ready to book, let’s take a quick moment for what’s to come. A truly perfect wedding comes from the understanding of a good budget. There’s of course differing opinions for what it takes to have a good wedding, firstly the goal of the day is for you to celebrate the combining of two lives into one. You can do it on any budget, but on average it is most common to expect to spend between $50,000-$150,000 at this venue, based on a 100–150 guest event:
- Venue Rental:
$12,000 + (Varies by season and package with discounts for winter months) - Catering & Bar (Varies):
$80–$150 per guest (For 100 guests: $8,000–$15,000) - Photography/Videography:
$4,000–$8,000+ - Florals:
$2,000–$6,000+ - Planner/Coordinator:
$2,000–$6,000 - Hair & Makeup:
$500–$2,000 (Based on party size) - Cake/Bakery:
$500–$1,000 - DJ/Live Music:
$1,000–$5,000 - Rentals:
Basic Chairs and Tables Included in venue package then $500–$2,000+ for specialty upgrades
Estimated Total for 100 Guests:
Low End: ~$50,000
High End: ~$120,000+
Keep in mind these are general ranges and vendor travel, design choices, and guest count will vary the costs.
I Can’t Recommend Enough The Beauty Of A Celebration At The Seclusion Wedding Venue
At the end of the day, if you are looking for a venue where you can celebrate in a world all of your own, I just know you are about to fall deeply in love with The Seclusion wedding venue! Now, you just need someone by your side to help you capture each and every moment. That’s where I come in! I am a Lexington wedding photographer and videographer with experience at this venue, almost all listed vendors, and I adore working with clients that have an elevated and personal approach to their day. My relationships with you goes far beyond just budget and this process is a personal experience for me with you. So you think my expertise at the venue and photography style showcased in the wedding gallery throughout this blog are what will best fit the vision you are dreaming, then begin your official inquiry here.
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